WOW, How could I have been sooo confused ??

I have been caught up in the illusion that there is a true definition of normal for quite some time and have only recently clarified, to myself, that nothing could be further from the truth.  Normal, by definition, would be a description of a standard or common range of acceptance that satisfies the largest portion of population.  WOW, is that a wild guess or what? - As it turns out, normal doesn't exist at all.  Of course there is NORML but that isn't the topic today. 

Everywhere I go and observe, I see that normal for a group on 1st street is completely different than those on 2nd street.  Sure, there are some commonalities between all humans but I am discussing Normal, which would include the total package in all cases. 

I am also convinced that, in the course of existing on this rock, you will find someone that agrees almost 100% with your definition of just what is normal.  Now that there is two of you, you only have to convince the remaining 6 billion that you have the formula.  You also have the fundamentals for creating an organization that would celebrate your commonality. 

As your group grows and develops, you begin to discover that the initial common ground has somehow been altered or at least been misinterpreted.  This in itself would necessitate some reorganization but generally will cause conflicts and eventually develop animosity between what is now becoming sub-groups.  Hence the definition of NORMAL is changed once again. 

There it is!! - Normal